The difference between man & woman when they face a major failure in life.
The woman will usually breakdown and cry, first. After being depress for a short while, she will pick the little that remains in her life and with all a strong determination & will, she fights the battle of failure. She continue fixing her life with the pain that pushes her on. She forces a smile to everyone she meet yet she meets more people than before. She starts a new life, pick up new hobby, have new habits, have more faith. Slowly but surely, that fake smile becomes a genuine one. She is walking to success & a better life ahead.
On the other hand, the man goes into despair. He start getting drunk, wasted, turning up for work late, not submitting assignments, failing school, cope himself with computer games. He lose all motivation for life. He hangs out with his friends with a gloomy face. He never bother to face reality. But allow his life to spiral backwards.
So ladies, keep telling yourself that “I will make it”, “Whatever the man can do it, I can do it too”, “I can’t give up just like that”. Failure allows us to decide what we really want a second time.
And men, don’t give up on life just like that. You are suppose to be the stronger sex. It’s okay to cry sometimes, women don’t judge that much as you imagine. I would love to see more successful happy men.
